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Sunday, August 30, 2009

life:The Truth

It is not uncommon to the ears of a man to hear his nature being attached to negative generalization with an accompanying expletive. And while this frame of reference can be the truthof many men, it is not the reality of the entire gender. But the problem does not lie in the minds of the contentious women who develope these observations. The problem lies within the mirror that they view themselves.Dare these women ask for an acceptable man when they themselves struggle to meet the most meager standards of decency? Dare she request monagamy, when she herself has 3 or four men on hold in case "he doesnt work out". Can she call a man a dog when she has intimate contact with more than 1 man in a span of a week. The truth of the matter is that no good man wants a woman who doesnt respect herself not to embarras herself with uncouth dancing and drunken behavior. the truth is that no decent man wants a woman who can't bring hersef not to curse in every sentence that she speaks. The truth is that sexual promiscuity extends beyond the reach of actually having sex. If you had intimate contact...the essence of promiscuity still holds true. The truth is that the constant declaration of "I love you" can't disguise the obvious contradiction that often comes minutes later in the from of a phonecall to another gentleman. Many of theses ailments can be chalked up to immaturity, and the rest simply ignorance. The question then arises "Where are all the good men at?" The answer can be found away from those who have to ask. The truth is....there are just as many good men as there are good women. And that number is few...on both ends.